{Giveaway Wednesday} Saintly Silver

by Kathryn on May 2, 2012

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I had such a good time doing the last giveaway by Clarey Clayworks, that I decided to do it again.  I ordered my First Communion bowl from Anne and it turned out even more beautiful than I imagined!

This month, I’m featuring another Catholic artisan found on Etsy via Pinterest, Saintly Silver.

She is also the mom of five *high-fives* and very talented.  Here’s what Erin has to say about herself and her business:

“I am a cradle Catholic, from an Irish family and the youngest of six.  I started sewing and doing embroidery when I was in first grade.  I’ve always enjoyed all forms of art throughout the years:  painting, clay and silversmithing.  But, I always go back to my first love, sewing.  I’ve been selling my handcrafted designs for over 14 years.  On my Etsy site, I describe myself as an independent Catholic artist designing quality gifts to comfort and remind one of their faith.  It’s great to offer this giveaway on Team Whitaker and I hope you’ll stop over at my site to see some of the creations.  I love what I do!”

She crafts softies in so many different forms I’ve lost count.  Shhh…I had her craft five softies for my children for Christmas in honor of their saint names:  St. William, Bl. John Paul, St. Anne, St. Clare of Assisi and St. Luke.  Oh y’all.  They arrived in the mail last week and I was speechless.  They. Are. Awesome.  Not only do they look adorable, but she also stitches a prayer on the back of each one.  *love*

If you’re looking for that “just-right” gift for a Godchild, friend, son or daughter, this just might be your chance.  The giveaway is for a custom-made Mary (she has a little extra embellishment added).  Isn’t she lovely?

HOW TO ENTER:

1.  Click on over to Saintly Silver and check out her shop.  Then, come back here and share your favorite softie in the “comments” section.
BONUS Entry #1:  Subscribe to my blog (upper right corner) via email and let me know in the comments section.  f you already subscribe, yea!  Just tell me in the comments section.
BONUS Entry #2:  Tweet the giveaway and come back here to tell me.

Get to tweeting, sharing and emailing!  Oh, I hope you win.
Giveaway starts today and ends at 8am on Friday, May 11.

 

Kathryn

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HDYDI: Organize a Kids’ Closet

by Kathryn on April 30, 2012

Sometimes I feel like organizing my children’s closets is a bit like shoveling snow.  As soon as you clean it up, you look behind you and see more falling.

Alas, after doing this five times over, I’ve come to realize the most important thing is this:  have a system that is easy enough so your children have ownership.  If you’re the one doing all the work, then it’s just not functional.  Below are my best tips for decluttering the closet, designing a workable system, installing functional shelving and sorting through the thousands of kid clothes/shoes/etc.  Grab a cup of Joe, this one might take a while :)

HDYDI:  ORGANIZE A KIDS’ CLOSET

1.  Take everything out and sort it.  Yep, all of it.  Make those three piles you see on TV home shows – trash, donate, keep.  My goal is always to keep the trash minimal, the donate pile big and the keep pile reasonable.

2.  Evaluate the space.  If you have a small closet, just store that child’s clothes and keepsakes there.  We try to think about closet size when assigning our children their rooms.  We knew the girls would care more about that than the boys, so they got the big closet.  We store extra things in there space, like shoes, Halloween costumes, winter jackets and “keepsake” clothes (more on that in a second).  The boys have limited space, so we adjusted the design accordingly.

Girls Closet “Before”

Girls’ Closet “After”

Boys’ Closet “After”

3.  Map out the space.  If you can swing it, you should really take down the manufactured shelving home builder’s put in the closet and start over.  The reality is, vertical space is your most precious commodity.  One shelf and one clothes rod is not efficient storage management.  A man must’ve planned those closet systems!  My favorite solution is elfa from the Container Store, but I only buy closet systems during their annual 30% off sale that runs December 24-President’s Day.  Several home improvement stores offer wired shelving options for less money.  Whatever you choose, make it a system that can grow with your child.  You can also enter your dimesions on the Container Store’s website and they kick back a design to you within 24 hours.  Even if you don’t use them for everything, it’s a great “dream” of how a closet organizer would utilize your space.  And, it’s free!

4.  Bust out the Kleenex.  During Lent, I got rid of *almost* 40 bags of stuff.  It is hard to let things go – at least it is for me – when it comes to my kids.  For some weird maternal reason, I have such strong memories associated with my children’s clothes.  It is hard, but it has to be done.  It is not right to live in such abundance when others go without.  I found GREAT joy in donating many of their clothes to our local children’s therapy gym where Luke goes for therapy.  Yes, you can definitely donate them to Goodwill or sell them in a garage sale, but we have such a strong connection to our therapists and I know so many of those children need clothes.  For the ones I just couldn’t part with, there is a solution.

5.  Set aside a “keepsake” box and create a “childhood box.”  I have one keepsake box for the girls (combined) and one box for the boys.  In it, I have special outfits like the hospital “going home” outfit, preemie clothes and other special outfits that have the strongest emotions.  It allowed me a compromise.  I could keep some, but they had to fit in the box.  The rest had to go.  For the “childhood box” I have things like their baptismal candle, baptism/first communion cards and other special keepsakes that don’t fit into their baby albums.  Yes, I actually have one for every child and they are all updated.  I’ll do a HDYDI about all that this summer!

6.  For clothes storage, we do two things.  We have a two-tier clothes rod.  The clothes on the upper rod are from the previous season and/or year and the ones on the lower rack are for wearing now.  Sometimes, we’ll hit the end of a season, but my kids haven’t really outgrown the outfit.  I know they might be able to wear it for a month or two when the season rolls around again, so we keep it in plain sight so I don’t forget about it!  You could always put it at the back of the closet, at the end of the rod, if you don’t have space for an upper/lower hanging system.  The other option is to purchase clear plastic containers and label them by sex/season/size.  I made a handy checklist (Clothes storage) that I slipped into a plastic sleeve and then put in the front of the container so I could easily locate “Boys, Fall/Winter, 4T clothes,” for example.  Just be sure before you put anything in storage that you sort it first.  If it’s torn or damaged, trash it.  If it’s something you want to donate, put it in your donate pile and get it out of the closet.  Only store things you want your kids to wear again, otherwise you’re taking up valuable real estate.

7.  Start loading everything back into the space and LABEL, LABEL, LABEL.  We put seldom used items on the top shelves (sleeping bags, luggage, blankets and their “childhood box”).  We opted to forgo buying dressers and utilized the basket shelves from The Container Store.  Money. Well. Spent. (or actually not spent!)  We’ve made them eye level so they are within reach and they hold underwear, socks and pajamas.  The girls have extra bling, like the letters with ribbons to hold all their bows (rainbow color order, of course).  Trust me, Clare could sing the rainbox song at age 3.  We also store their headbands and shoes on the shelves, along with blankets, stuffed animals and pillows.  I found these great label templates on BH&G, Bin Storage_green.

8.  Make it a priority to keep everything off the floor.  There is nothing I hate more than a closet floor I can’t see.  Think vertical!

9.  The best part, is I can send my kids upstairs on laundry day and they can put 95% of their clothes up by themselves.  I do a quick sweep on Monday mornings and spend about 10 minutes putting things back in order.  Truth be told, the kids’ closets look like this most of the time because they know how the system works.

10.  A happy child makes a happy momma!

Kathryn

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QOTW: April 27, 2012

by Kathryn on April 27, 2012

Me:  “JP, what do you think of the figurine on your First Communion cake?”
JP:  “Hey, he looks like me.”

Scott:  “Man, John Paul, you are getting so old.”
JP:  “I’m not old, I don’t have gray hair!”

John Paul to his Godmother:  “Are you Catholic?”

I’m still cracking up at all those.  This kid is so funny.  This weekend we have another crazy few days.  John Paul and Anna-Laura both have games, Will and I are heading to Ft. Worth for his academic meet in spelling and we’re looking forward to some family time on Sunday, as well.  I’m still in denial that we have five weeks left of school.  Not. Possible.  I do have to say, though, summer is calling and I’m pretty excited.  VBS, Art Camp, Golf Camp, big-kid-spend-the-night-away-from-home camp for the boys and some pool time.

On Monday, I’ll have a big update on Master Luke.  We visit with his developmental pediatrician and have the bi-annual developmental assessments.  It’s always a long morning and I’m hoping there will be lots of good news.  A preemie mom can dream, can’t she?

Make it a great weekend!

Kathryn

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Busy as Bees

by Kathryn on April 26, 2012

I feel like there are so many things swimming around in my brain.  Unfortunately, I’m in the deep end, treading water!  Client work has been keeping me extraordinarily busy, my workout schedule has been – um – abysmal?  Sports season is finally winding down, but end-of-school activities are ramping up.  I’m still looking for my imaginary assistant, but she keeps going on vacation.  Meanie.

I have plenty to share in tomorrow’s QOTW and next week about fun visitors and kids’ accomplishments.  Today, I thought I’d share a bit of what I’ve been doing on the preemie front.

This morning, while Luke was at speech and feeding therapy, I participated in a focus group with Mead-Johnson (the makers of Enfamil) about eating issues and how they can better support NICU parents.  I will tell you this.  There is NOTHING more humbling than being in a room full of moms of miracle babies.  Many of Luke’s challenges pale in comparison to these kids.  There are kids who have much larger crosses than our family, yet these moms are joyful, hopeful, funny, inviting, amazing and inspiring.  Thank you, GOD, for allowing me to sit in that room today and be humbled.

Tonight, I’ll be attending a reception in honor of Hand to Hold.  I’m most excited about seeing one of Luke’s neonatologists and hugging his neck.  He is an amazing doctor and the world needs more compassionate caregivers like him.  We connected on a deeper level – a NICU stay will do that to you – and I always leave our conversations feeling good about our place in life.  Not to mention, I will be in the company of parents who live life to its fullest.  We’ve seen the deepest pits of hell and returned.  We are survivors.  I am grateful for their friendship and understanding.

And, the best way to start my day was at the school Mass.  Will read a prayer petition (and did beautifully), Luke made it through an entire Mass (holla!) and I cried when JP went up for communion (again).  Fr. Danny’s homily was exactly what my heart needed to hear today.  “Be grateful,” he said.  Welcome Christ into your life.  Let your life be an example that you believe.  I must blog more about that sometime in the very near future.  Being grateful, not judgmental.

Kathryn

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Top Ten: Best Moments on Film

by Kathryn on April 25, 2012

If you haven’t guessed this week’s theme, it’s First Communion.  We were blessed to have a great photographer (and friend!) from our former parish serve as the official photographer. I must say, if you are a parish, PLEASE HIRE A PHOTOGRAPHER for your parents.  They will love you 1,000 times over.  Obviously, the sanctity of Mass would’ve been completely destroyed if 100 people were clicking away during that hour.  Instead, the parents cried and the photographer caught all the amazing moments on film.  Pat McCord, God bless you.

TOP TEN:  BEST MOMENTS OF THE WEEKEND

This first batch is compliments of Pat.  He did a beautiful job.  I’m even thinking of making a book for John Paul as his Christmas present this year.  According to my “top ten” rules, I’ve already given you nine photos.  Well, aren’t you lucky.  Today you get a top 20!

These are a few I snapped after the Mass.  L-R, John Paul and his Godmother, Gachia; JP with Fr. Ron and Fr. Danny and JP with Granny

What’s an awesome Mass without a rockin’ party after?  Scott made his now-famous guacamole and fajitas, Ray (Gachia’s husband) got roped into playing toilet tag with the kids, Luke never stopped running and the cake from Polkadots was absolutely delish.  More on that in a second.

The cake, created by Polkadots, was more awesome than I could’ve imagined.  I’d pinned some ideas on Pinterest, shared them with Olga and then we made a few tweaks.  They added the rosary and I almost cried when I saw it.  You’ll have to check back in on Friday to hear what John Paul’s first reaction was.  I’ll just give you one word:  priceless.  The cookies were created by Paige’s Bakehouse in Round Rock.  While they weren’t as delicious as our old (now closed) standby, Cookie Haus, they were pretty darn good.  Again, they were designed by inspiration on Pinterest.  Love that place.

There were lots of friends and family here to celebrate.  Unfortunately my photographer (I’m looking at YOU, Daniel) had to relocate to Florida and couldn’t make it.  Brothers.  I have no doubt there would be even more pictures of the par-tay with him there, but no worries.  I’ve got them all burned in my sweet noggin.  It was just a gorgeous day, inside and out.  If you have someone you know celebrating the Sacrament this Easter season, I pray their day is just as special!

Mom, Dad, Amanda, Ava, Judy, Gachia, Ray, Carla, Edna Mae, Kymn – thank you for being here on such a special day.  And to the rest of y’all not able to make it, rest assured your prayers were felt.  We love y’all!!

Kathryn

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First Communion Was Beautiful!

by Kathryn on April 24, 2012

This past weekend, my second child celebrated his First Communion.  I’ve been thinking about this day for years and planning for *almost* that long (hey, party planning is my vice).  To think I almost missed the big event during Mass makes me chuckle.  But, more on that in just a moment.

To read the rest of my take on John Paul’s big day, click on over to Austin Catholic New Media.  Enjoy!

Kathryn

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HDYDI: Survive First Communion

by Kathryn on April 23, 2012

When my first child made his First Communion, I was a hot mess.  So, so beautiful.

The second time around, I thought I was prepared.  Oh, for the party, I had it all under control.  We even left for the church without feeling rushed.  But when “the” moment came during Mass it hit me, once again.  I’ll be blogging all about the emotion, the anticipation, the joy and the peace tomorrow over at Austin Catholic New Media.

Until then…here’s a sneak peek.

Kathryn

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Awesome Weekend Ahead

by Kathryn on April 20, 2012

I’m skipping your usual QOTW and making this short and sweet.  John Paul (son #2) is making his First Communion this weekend.  I could not be prouder or more excited!  Impossible.  I have no doubt there will be stellar QOTWs, pictures, top tens and a very special HDYDI come next week.  Just you wait.

Oh, and I think we’re planning on squeezing in a soccer game, a baseball game, a soccer party and some precious time with family, friends and Godparents.  Because life should be lived, right?  Make it a great weekend!

Kathryn

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You found a *what* in your shoe?!

by Kathryn on April 19, 2012

This morning, we’re all giggles and grins getting ready for school.  It was a rare day in that none of my children had instigated a fight before 6:45.  Winning.

Well, until 7:30 when Anna-Laura was putting on her shoes and she shouts out, “Eww, there’s a bug in my shoe.”

“Yeah, honey, I’m sure there is,” Scott and I both thought.

Scott asked her to bring the shoe over so he could confirm that it was a nothing-to-be-concerned-about bug and they could get on their way to school.  And then he spotted it.  A big ‘ol NASTY cockroach.  AAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHH.

“That’s definitely my worst today,” Anna-Laura giggles.

Oh Team Whitaker, let’s get this party started!

Kathryn

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Top Ten: A Reality Check

by Kathryn on April 18, 2012

I’m not sure that I’ve officially launched the news here on the ‘ol blog, but I am now serving as the Lead Blogger over at Hand to Hold’s parent blog, PreemieBabies101.  What an honor!  We talk about all things related to prematurity, child loss and children with special needs.  I have already met some crazy awesome women through that outlet and it makes the isolation of wondering how our kids are going to make it in this big, bad world a little easier.  If you know a mom who’s experienced any of those, please send her our way.  We can help.  I’ll share more in May when the blog really gets rolling.

My experience with PreemieBabies 101 has changed my heart.  That’s why, when I heard about this new “fad diet” the “Today” show aired on Monday, my heart sank.  Then, I watched the coverage and I quite nearly threw a chair through the window.  It seems as if brides-to-be pay $1,500 bucks to have a “doctor” (and, yes I use that term liberally) insert an NG tube (nasogastric) tube up their nose and down into their stomach so they can consume their 800 calories a day via a liquid form.  It’s said to have weight loss results of up to 20 pounds in 10 days.

That is all kinds of wrong and here’s ten reasons why.

1.  I’m not faulting the Today show for covering the story.  In fact, their initial coverage showed two doctors discounting the diet and calling it “dangerous.”  I’m more appalled by how the hosts joked and cringed at the thought of feeding tubes later in the segment.  Perhaps the outcry on their Facebook page will encourage Hoda and Kathie Lee to not only issue an apology to all “tubies” out there, but maybe it will soften their heart and give them a new perspective on the struggles many people face.

2. THIS is what a feeding tube looks like Today show, brides, doctors, Hoda and Kathie Lee.  This is my 8-day-old preemie son, Luke.  That NG tube is reducing gas in his belly so he doesn’t get a dangerous, no good thing called NEC.

3.  Oh wait, Luke DID get NEC – three times.  So after surviving on TPN for nearly a month after his emergency surgery, his feeding tubes then provided much needed, life-giving nutrition.

4.  He’s flirted with low weight gain all of his 2 years and 7 months of life.  We’ve paid thousands of dollars ourselves – on therapy – just to get him to put a cracker in his mouth.  To think brides are doing that so they can be “pretty” on their wedding day makes me sick.

5.  Hoda and Kathie Lee mock the bag these brides carry around, saying ”…what if it gets spilled?” while forgetting that there are some children who live like that everyday.  For some, it’s so severe they require a more permanent intervention called a g-tube (one that’s inserted directly into his belly).   It’s something we seriously considered for Luke for many, many months.

6.  I have to wonder what kind of woman would try this diet – there has to be an underlying issue.  Is it an eating disorder?  Body image issues?  It’s not sustainable and it’s certainly not a lifestyle one can live on at 800 calories a day.

7.  And, what kind of man are they marrying if they feel the need to go to this extreme?

8.  Often times I think folks believe only the very ill, or elderly, are on feeding tubes.  We forget there are children who live full, happy lives with those tubes.  It’s not a weight loss gimmick, it’s their life.

9.  No one can really prepare a parent for life with a child on a feeding tube.  To think that these women use it so superfluously and that a doctor is prescribing it says that our society much to learn about beauty.

10.  Perhaps the biggest takeaway from all this nonsense is the teachable moment.  We often hear, try or see things that are new to us and form an opinion without first having lived through it.  I’ve seen the courage of a mom who puts an NG tube in her child’s nose day in and day out.  I’ve seen life sustained in a grandparent who relies on that feeding tube for life.  I’ve witnessed a child thriving and growing due to a feeding tube where otherwise they would’ve died.

What does beauty look like to you?  That’s easy for me, I see it everyday…

Kathryn

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